We demand more from our partners today than ever before.

Gone are the days when we needed protection, money, or survival from them. We’ve outgrown those expectations. Now, we seek someone who can help us rise—someone who walks beside us as we evolve into the best version of ourselves. With our foundational needs met, we turn our attention to a partner who elevates our journey to self-actualization.

Our relationship with clothing is no different. With endless options at our fingertips, fashion has become a powerful tool for self-expression. Fast fashion, for all its flaws, has opened doors for us to explore our truest selves through style like never before.

So, what’s next for us in the world of fashion?

You already know the answer.

It’s time to use our clothing to express our deepest essence.

Whether your vibe is chic, bohemian, minimalist, or bold, the key is authenticity. And yes, decision fatigue is real. But when it comes to dating, we know what we want—so why not apply the same clarity to our wardrobe?

What scares you when it comes to fashion? What’s the style you admire, yet hesitate to wear? That’s where the magic happens. The most transformative thing we can do is step outside our comfort zone, discover new styles, and embrace a version of ourselves we never knew existed.

I know it’s not easy. We all get stuck in our habits and comfort zones. That’s exactly why I’m here—to change your perspective on what you can pull off.

You’ve got this. Trust me. You can wear it all.

So, next time you’re scrolling through Pinterest or Instagram, take a moment to notice the styles that call to you but feel intimidating. Rent it, buy it, try it on. Follow me on Instagram @clarise_seaman and tag me in a photo wearing your bold new look.

I’ll dive into why that style triggers you and reveal what your color choices say about you. Fashion isn’t just about what you wear on the surface—it’s about the power it holds to connect with your subconscious mind, heal, and empower.

So, I ask: are you ready to step into your power and be truly seen?

When I was in college, living in Santa Cruz with 18 other students, I was constantly seeking a place that felt truly like home. My room was tiny, more of a closet than a bedroom. I spent most of my time there, working on my philosophy studies, living, and—most importantly—growing. But something was always off. No matter how many times I rearranged my room or tried to perfect the Feng Shui, it never felt right.

Until one day, I found them: two matching, simple tan boho welcome mats. Nothing special on their own, but when I placed them at the entrance to my room—one in front of each door—something shifted. I didn’t understand it at the time, but I felt it in my body. A deep sense of peace, like the space had finally welcomed me in. I’d step onto those mats after a long day, wiping my feet off before stepping into my sanctuary, free of the dirt and chaos that lingered outside. I felt clean, grounded, and at ease in my own space.

And that’s when I realized: The spaces around us have a profound effect on how we feel. Everything we surround ourselves with—from the way we dress to the way we design our environments—carries energy. It influences our thoughts, emotions, and actions.

Fast forward, and now I teach others about the power of surrounding yourself with what resonates with who you are. Not just clothes or décor, but anything that creates a space where you can truly be yourself. You see, it’s all connected—what you wear, where you live, how you shop. It’s about creating alignment between your inner world and your outer world.

But here’s the secret: Color is vibration. Everything around you is made of it—atoms, light, sound—everything is energy. And when you start to understand how color and vibration affect you, you begin to unlock a new level of self-expression.

Have you ever noticed how red has a certain energy? It’s bold, passionate, and demands attention. On the other hand, lavender feels soft and calming, almost shy. These colors don’t just sit there; they interact with you and the world around you. Ever heard of “lucky girl syndrome”? If you believe in luck, you see it everywhere. The way you perceive the world shifts based on the energy you bring to it. And this is just as true with color—it shapes how we feel and how we’re perceived.

But here’s the kicker: Expression isn’t vain; it’s an intuitive hack. You have the power to express yourself in ways that resonate deeply with who you are. Clothes are a tool for this; they are more than fabric—they’re a reflection of your inner self. When you understand how to harness this, you stop blindly following trends or fitting into boxes. You start listening to what truly makes you feel like YOU.

My purpose here is simple: To teach you how to tap into this intuitive system. To remind you that fashion, style, and self-expression aren’t about fitting into clothes, but about aligning with your true self. Because when you dress in a way that honors who you are, you’ll feel it in your soul.

So, ask yourself: What does your space—your room, your clothes, your life—say about you? And, more importantly, what do you want it to say?